To sexually dominate someone, specifically a submissive partner, often by speaking harshly and causing physical pain.
'I didn't think she would be any good at topping, being such a meek little thing, but she's hell on wheels with a spiked strap!'
by Dominique January 2, 2005
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1. Sexual - the act of one who is a bottom or versatile being fucked anally, with a penis or pegged with a strap-on dildo.

2. BDSM - the experience of being submissive... being turned into a bottom.

3. Verb - used in past tense to describe a completion of an act or experience.
1. He got topped the other night bi a well-hung bull.

2. When he first walked into Mistress Victoria's dungeon, he was a complete novice and had never been topped... yet.

3. They topped off their evening with a nice creampie dessert for the lucky bottom.
by JamieCurious July 3, 2009
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At the maximum, at most, at the most, not more than
I will take two years, tops.
It will set you back $20, tops.
by Dennis July 24, 2006
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Meaning that the previously mentioned statement, vision or joke is approved. Some say That's Tops was actually better than That's Gold which replaced that's tops as a way of giving the saying more "vission".
a) This picture of Gollum from lord of the rings looks just like you, that's tops that'll do me

b) I've got nothing It's a carve up
by jango fett October 11, 2009
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1. Man, this cake is tops.
by Evie October 15, 2003
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A person of any above description who "takes the lead" or is dominant in sexual situation. May or may not include S & M, fantasy role play or fetishes or servitude. May or may not want to be touched. Will initiate sex. If includes S & M, the top will be the one to do the bondage & pain play etc. to the bottom.
by dijjn June 4, 2003
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Of Irish origin, meaning (for a male) to slide their hands up a woman's top and touch her breasts over her bra!!
Person 1: How far did you get at wezz? (disco)
Person 2: she let me top her
Person 1: Wow so you are in with the art of topping!
by Ginger nerd..... :) September 17, 2011
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