Adjective; a word that describes the stereotypical cisgender gay white male. Traditionally they are priveleged, very bitchy and aloof of their surroundings with a heightened sense of self importance. They disguise their ignorance and racism as "sassy".
The house gay can be usually found at trendy bars drinking cosmos and cranberry vodkas, talking and laughing louder than all of their friends. They are notoriously ignorant of other LGBTQ members, notably trans people, and queer people of color. They watch Will & Grace religiously and swear by Lush and Tuesday night happy hour.
The house gay can be usually found at trendy bars drinking cosmos and cranberry vodkas, talking and laughing louder than all of their friends. They are notoriously ignorant of other LGBTQ members, notably trans people, and queer people of color. They watch Will & Grace religiously and swear by Lush and Tuesday night happy hour.
House Gay: "Damn sis! Did you just witness that bearded dyke? Straight out of the Bronx Zoo! What the fuck!?"
Friend: "Good lord Tyler....Maybe they're trans? Honestly you really don't have any be talking about how someone is allowed to present unless you yourself are trans. You are such a fucking house gay it's incredible."
Friend: "Good lord Tyler....Maybe they're trans? Honestly you really don't have any be talking about how someone is allowed to present unless you yourself are trans. You are such a fucking house gay it's incredible."
by CoffeeGrinder March 20, 2019
by Tiffani June 26, 2005
A house with at least two LGBTQ+ members that engage in sexual activity. In other words, not only are there two gays, but the two gays fuck. If you enter straight, and then you leave straight. No gay conversion of any sort, unless you want to. Then you’ll have to pay the price, which is honestly 1 fucking penny because bills must be paid.
Natalia just moved in with Sam, they're making their place a real gay house.
If I move into a gay house, I'll be better off financially, and mentally.
I live in a gay house, no gay conversion necessary.
If I move into a gay house, I'll be better off financially, and mentally.
I live in a gay house, no gay conversion necessary.
by easyb8ke March 26, 2019
When an otherwise straight man of considerable financial means has a close, live-in (usually masculine) gay friend for camaraderie, shared hobbies, garage time and the occasional, casual sexual dalliance. The House Gay is generally a "kept man" and is lodged in a guest house or separate wing of the home from the man's primary partner.
by TheHemingwayGay June 19, 2025