Trendy Goths who decide they like techno. Either for emotional reasons or cool points. Sometimes they may attend an occasional rave, but they will never be seen raving. They are the ones wearing black fishnet and sitting in the corner grimacing with their imaginary juggalo friends.
"hi!!! want a sticker? how aboot some glitter?"

"fuck off. I'm too cool for this shit."
by Colleen. July 15, 2004
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1. A term used to describe a person that attempts to combine both the styles of A) goth and B) raver. Both styles being ridiculous you could see how this paring can prove to be disastrous. Gravers are usually self described as "creative".

2. Really shitty music. See: Graver's Paradise
If you're ever at Union Square you can see all the gravers sparring off by the George Washington Statue. I don't know which are worse: the bums, the junkies or the gravers.
by Venessa Nina April 14, 2006
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1 part goth, 1 part raver. You'll find one in the local "goth" club hepped up on crystal meth and water most likely dancing to EBM (E.B.M.).
Someone tell Aurora that candy jewlery doesn't go with fishnets. She's such a graver.
by gothrobot June 11, 2005
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The new type of goth music that seems to embrace all the mopeyness of regular goth music, but also adds the "thumpa thumpa"sounds of their raver cousins. Good examples of this music genre are Asembledge23 and VNV Nation.
"Damb graver music ruining a perfectly good night for stomping!"
by negativedreamers July 20, 2005
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anyone, typically over 40, dressing in an unsuitably “hip” young fashion, embodying a “Jersy Shore” meets “MMA” style, totally oblivious to how ridiculous and unhip they actually appear; anyone over the age of twelve wearing Ed Hardy. See Simon on “The Real Housewives of New York City” and Jon Gosling.
After my parents found the Ed Hardy outlet, they became total gravers!
by firwinca July 10, 2011
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Affectionate insult for those found slumped, as though lifeless, in the dark corners of heaving parties who clearly timed their drop wrong or just don’t have the stamina to see it through to stupid o’clock in the morning.
“The gravers are stacking up... time for another bomb!”

“I was tripping over gravers on my way to the lavvy

"shit dude is that graver a goner?"
by wronginthehead August 13, 2009
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During sexual intercourse, you cut your partner up with a knife and start digging their insides out with a shovel. When they are "empty" you attempt to use them as a jacket.
Yoo dude, last night I pulled a Dirty Graver it was so cool... she was still warm
by 1000 IQDictionary April 30, 2020
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