A frumpy hipster. A hipster who is frumpy in appearance and unlikely to be sociable. Generally thinks they’re “too cool” to be anywhere, yet their appearance and demeanor beg otherwise. Lazy or dated outfits. Often scaling from across the bar at the girls who are having fun. An arrogant killjoy.
I wanted to get a round of drinks, but the frumpster sitting at the bar wouldn’t allow me access to the bartender.
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.