She is a crazy woman and has a foot fetish, underwear fetish and likes spanking. She is very fast at running and hurdling and is also gay. She is wild and needs mental help.
John: oh is that ding xuan?
johnny: Yes! beware of her she is crazy bigg butt woman
Severely obese. Sometimes he tries to lose weight, but to no avail; because food always comes first. Probably has a dog. Is extremely nice, but can be grumpy at times. A Dingxuan is a good friend, but when broke, he might steal your money. So keep him close to you, but not too close.
A: I met a guy yesterday, he was really nice to me. But i lost my wallet after.
B: Is he a Dingxuan?
A: How do you know?
when you're holding up your phone and making faces at it, as though you are taking a selfie, but you're really taking a picture of the person across from you or the wall or anything else that seems interesting but you don't want to be caught dead taking a picture of.
This action is often made more convincing by wiggling the eyebrows or opening the mouth, to pretend you're trying to get a Snapchat filter to work.
The grindset is a contemporary ideology of self-exploitation disguised as strength, deeply tied to the aesthetics of the “sigma male” and to new digital forms of patriarchy. It promotes the idea that human worth depends on productivity, economic success, absolute emotional control, and the ability to work endlessly, turning vulnerability, rest, community, and tenderness into signs of weakness. Beneath its rhetoric of discipline and power often lies a profound inability to relate healthily to pain, fragility, and human interdependence.
“That’s the grindset, brother. While weak men sleep and complain, sigma males stay disciplined, work in silence, suppress emotions, and build power while everyone else wastes time chasing comfort.”