Darcy Style : To get some one back for fucking you over or being a complete asshole. You wait patiently until the perfect moment, then you stick it up their ass- Darcy-Style. It can be in the form of revenge, or justice for a very deserving individual, or for a collective organization of people. Either way its a sweet little victory over some one who completely deserves it, and it makes your heart do a little happy-dance when it happens.
"That security guard was an asshole to me yesterday when I needed to get my ID checked, But thats ok because when my company wins the security contract in a few months, Im going to be the Operations Manger and Im going to give it to him Darcy-style by having him fired."
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.