A friend or colleague you masterbate with. Could be straight, bi, gay. Married or single. No need for sex, just bro on bro bonding time. Sometimes you just need to wank & having an extra hand is needed.
Oh I don’t have sex with him, he’s a bate bud.

Going to get a few bate buds together for a Sunday morning bate sesh.
by MWES January 20, 2021
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