When you are having a light conversation with someone and at a point during that conversation, the other person begins talking about something serious.
Person 1: "I can't wait to relax and watch the game on Sunday. I'm gonna just eat wings, drink beer and chill."
Person 2: "Yeah, me too. I won't be able to catch the first half because I just lost my job and I need to go looking for work. My bank accounts getting pretty low and I'm worried I might lose my house."
Person 1: "Dude. Why'd you have to bring the heavy?"
When something is too much to handle or take in. Feeling in over your head. Too much to comprehend or understand.
Ugh! Michael loves me, but I likeScott, but I care a lot for Michael, but i really wanna be with Scott, but I just don't know how he feels about me because he's giving me mixed signals!...this is heavy