The instigator couldn't let the elementary school kids laugh at him/her, so he/she posed as a something they would respect, someone who broke rules, while posing as someone who loved rules to play the adults while trying to get a few of them to respect him/her.
by Solid Mantis November 30, 2019
The instigator was playing all sides, from anti-abortion to abortion supporters (to turn them against one another), from people that lived in mansions to people with no home (people of all walks of life), the instigator was always trying to rally people (into a mob) to fight for her because then she wouldn't have to fight alone (since she hated being alone), she could always outnumber an opponent, she could always roll people deep to walk/trample over an opponent if it wasn't just her by herself, a bully, a little girl, a mouse always looking to pick a fight with people she thought were weaker or less feisty than her.
by The Original Agahnim January 21, 2022
gift is an instigator
by hcacptruthsxx January 12, 2024
When someone or something instigates foul nonsense bullshit to the point of receiving backlash and payback but nobody really wins.
Jeff stop fucking with Tara, Tara stop engaging with Jeff or he’ll never stop.
Jason “I’ve had it with this instigating fuckery.”
Jason “I’ve had it with this instigating fuckery.”
by TaraRae82 January 02, 2023
Trying to force someone to leave or kick them out of somewhere for no reason isn't compassion or tough love, it's not any kind of love, it's being an instigator.
The instigator's babysitter didn't leave him/her with anything to do that day, so he/she went around trying to kick people out or run them off from different places for no good reason, because it made him/her feel tougher.
by Solid Mantis February 23, 2021
The instigator never held her tongue because she couldn't, she had no self control. She always blurted out either fuck you or a parrot like repetition of anything you just said in response back to her to try and provoke you. It was impossible to get along with/be civil with her since she was always standoffish just below the surface, like a purse dog ready to bite/tear somebody's head off.
by The Original Agahnim January 20, 2022
People could see that the dork that thought she was Mary Sue from the movie Pleasantville was an instigator once bricks started flying through people's windows. Since they had loved their home and were happy and peaceful there before she arrived, (and since it was never 1950's Pleasantville) they knew that they would be happy again when she went away, especially since she wasn't even from their home (though the one she thought of as being David really was). They were not there to celebrate her, roll down red carpets for her to walk over, or anything else, since nobody there owed her anything.
by The Original Agahnim January 03, 2022