A real kind of love that doesn’t disappear when things get messy. It’s about staying, accepting someone as they are, and being there without trying to fix them or walk away.
We are often told that love is soft or fragile, but this concept proves it is the strongest power of the soul. It isn’t just a feeling that comes and goes when things are convenient. Real love is born in the deep end, in those moments when you see someone without masks, without defenses, and choose to stay. Not because they are perfect, but because they are real.
A Steady Flame doesn’t run from the past or get scared of old wounds. It doesn’t try to change you or 'fix' you. It simply stands by you to remind you that you are never alone.
It takes courage to be this open, to drop the ego and just be present. But that is the choice made here: to choose each other, again and again, even through the uncertainty. It isn't always easy, but it is true. And that kind of truth is the only thing that really matters.
Passion fades fast, but a steady flame is what actually lasts ❤️
A Steady Flame doesn’t run from the past or get scared of old wounds. It doesn’t try to change you or 'fix' you. It simply stands by you to remind you that you are never alone.
It takes courage to be this open, to drop the ego and just be present. But that is the choice made here: to choose each other, again and again, even through the uncertainty. It isn't always easy, but it is true. And that kind of truth is the only thing that really matters.
Passion fades fast, but a steady flame is what actually lasts ❤️
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Choosing you is a reality even when wrong, feels right at the end of every day, no matter how we got here.
Choosing you is a reality even when wrong, feels right at the end of every day, no matter how we got here.
You’re right the static never stood a chance. When I said I try to comply, I never meant it as a hollow gesture or a lack of fire. I meant that I’ve been trying to meet you in the silence, reciprocating distance coz I thought it was what you needed. But I don’t want to hide behind those walls anymore.
I dont like the phantom limb. I want the storm, the reality and everything in between. I’m not just keeping this love safe, as long as its mutual, I’m ready to live it beside you. If the word you’re waitin for is Si then know I’ve been whisperin it in my heart all along.
But let’s be as true as that "steady flame." I want us to be more than a memory or a trauma bond. To do that we can’t just sweep the debris under the rug and hope it stays there. We need to clear the ground for good. I want to hear your thoughts, even the sharp ones coz unresolved ghosts always find a way back to the surface. Let’s pack light, leaving the extra baggage behind, so we don’t repeat the cycles that hurt us.
I never want to be the reason for your trauma and I’ve realized that sometimes we trigger in each other the very things we fear most. I know the weight of discussion can be heavy but the silence of an unresolved argument is heavier. Let’s trade the static for a truth that actually resolves. No more running from the reality of us. I’m ready to stop the orbit and just be present.
(And fine... I’ll lose the sunglasses if it means you can see how much I mean this 😇)
I dont like the phantom limb. I want the storm, the reality and everything in between. I’m not just keeping this love safe, as long as its mutual, I’m ready to live it beside you. If the word you’re waitin for is Si then know I’ve been whisperin it in my heart all along.
But let’s be as true as that "steady flame." I want us to be more than a memory or a trauma bond. To do that we can’t just sweep the debris under the rug and hope it stays there. We need to clear the ground for good. I want to hear your thoughts, even the sharp ones coz unresolved ghosts always find a way back to the surface. Let’s pack light, leaving the extra baggage behind, so we don’t repeat the cycles that hurt us.
I never want to be the reason for your trauma and I’ve realized that sometimes we trigger in each other the very things we fear most. I know the weight of discussion can be heavy but the silence of an unresolved argument is heavier. Let’s trade the static for a truth that actually resolves. No more running from the reality of us. I’m ready to stop the orbit and just be present.
(And fine... I’ll lose the sunglasses if it means you can see how much I mean this 😇)
by My ❤️ flows February 11, 2026
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A state of being both sedated and dazed, often unexpectedly, due to the effects of a substance—typically one that induces relaxation, euphoria, or mental fog—without prior knowledge or full awareness of its potency.
It can lead to rapid horizontal resting and the ability to only open one eye at a time. Legs may or may not work.
It can lead to rapid horizontal resting and the ability to only open one eye at a time. Legs may or may not work.
Timmy asks "Who wants some candy?" Alvie grabs 2-3 candies like they are a regular sweet treat. In the morning Alive asks "How did I get on your couch? Did I have a stroke?" After a discussion of the prior evening Alvie says "That fucking Timmy SEDAZED me!"
by jdapple February 15, 2025
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Skedaddle fadoolis (noun) is a playful, compound term that describes the act of swiftly escaping or discarding conventional categories and boxes—essentially running away from predefined compartments in favor of fluidity and open-mindedness.
Origin:
The phrase fuses "skedaddle," a colloquial term meaning to leave quickly or flee, with "fadoolis," an invented word that critiques the practice of placing people or ideas into strict categories (akin to the Dutch concept of "hokjes"). This combination was crafted to encapsulate the notion of rapidly abandoning the constraints of traditional classification systems.
Usage:
Skedaddle fadoolis can be used in contexts where someone or something decisively rejects or moves away from rigid classifications. It emphasizes both the speed and determination of the departure from the conventional boxes that society often imposes.
Conceptual Background:
Skedaddle fadoolis captures the spirit of rapid liberation from societal constraints. While "fadoolis" highlights the tendency to compartmentalize, "skedaddle" injects a sense of urgency and rebellion. Together, they invite reflection on how quickly one might need to escape the limiting boxes that categorize thoughts, behaviors, or identities, promoting a more expansive and inclusive way of understanding ourselves and the world around us.
Skedaddle fadoolis (noun) is a playful, compound term that describes the act of swiftly escaping or discarding conventional categories and boxes—essentially running away from predefined compartments in favor of fluidity and open-mindedness.
Origin:
The phrase fuses "skedaddle," a colloquial term meaning to leave quickly or flee, with "fadoolis," an invented word that critiques the practice of placing people or ideas into strict categories (akin to the Dutch concept of "hokjes"). This combination was crafted to encapsulate the notion of rapidly abandoning the constraints of traditional classification systems.
Usage:
Skedaddle fadoolis can be used in contexts where someone or something decisively rejects or moves away from rigid classifications. It emphasizes both the speed and determination of the departure from the conventional boxes that society often imposes.
Conceptual Background:
Skedaddle fadoolis captures the spirit of rapid liberation from societal constraints. While "fadoolis" highlights the tendency to compartmentalize, "skedaddle" injects a sense of urgency and rebellion. Together, they invite reflection on how quickly one might need to escape the limiting boxes that categorize thoughts, behaviors, or identities, promoting a more expansive and inclusive way of understanding ourselves and the world around us.
1. In a bid to embrace a more dynamic identity, she decided to skedaddle fadoolis and leave behind the outdated labels that no longer fit her.
2. The groundbreaking art exhibit encouraged visitors to skedaddle fadoolis, challenging them to look beyond the traditional categories of artistic expression.
3. As discussions about identity evolved, many young thinkers advocated for a skedaddle fadoolis approach, rejecting restrictive definitions in favor of a more fluid self-understanding.
2. The groundbreaking art exhibit encouraged visitors to skedaddle fadoolis, challenging them to look beyond the traditional categories of artistic expression.
3. As discussions about identity evolved, many young thinkers advocated for a skedaddle fadoolis approach, rejecting restrictive definitions in favor of a more fluid self-understanding.
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Sedatious, meaning a serene beauty, and also beautiful thoughts.
It is said in colloquial circles that it might have come from combining sedate with gracious and radiant. It is meant to be used to describe serene beauty in art, music and the written word, as well as appearing on the visages of certain humans and animals.
It isn’t officially a word yet, (as of July 2025) but is in the process of being recognized by Collins dictionary, Merriam-Webster, and others.
It is said in colloquial circles that it might have come from combining sedate with gracious and radiant. It is meant to be used to describe serene beauty in art, music and the written word, as well as appearing on the visages of certain humans and animals.
It isn’t officially a word yet, (as of July 2025) but is in the process of being recognized by Collins dictionary, Merriam-Webster, and others.
"She (or He) is so chill and good looking and smart, in fact, she's (he's) sedatious."
This could easily be said about Obama or Renee Russo.
This could easily be said about Obama or Renee Russo.
by Halo Kitty July 27, 2025
Get the Sedatious mug.A manly man name in Turkish. Sedats are generally known for their generosity and clever/witty yet very very down-to-earth comments in almost everything, loves to support any and everything with evidences. One can claim Sedats are hot, well-built and into sport. They happen to be a whisky-lover without which they might not survive. Not very verbal with their feelings and emotions, only talk about them when they are really really forced to, still one can tell when they deeply look into their so-very dark eyes. Always afraid of commitment. They are always fun to be around.
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