F shaming F:
Any loving a man female being shamed by the seething flock of arrogant/snobbish control freak women - she doesn't place above him. (her commitment to the daily choice to love = loyally serving/submitting/tolerating/etc being useful to him - to add to his life, not harm it; not having others on the same level or above him in any way)
Anyone on any level sub to man or not hating men - supportive and pleasing to be with, instead of: impudent, greedy, demanding, egotistical, hedonistic, hubristic, transactional, harmful.. - overall repulsive, expecting simping/slaving for them.
Pecking at her like psychopathic chickens; exploitative or despising men, want to manipulatively impose control upon them (it's all the projections they say about men, but in reverse, being a twisted, incapable of empathy, parody on masculine herself), placing their flock of women above the man.
From either leftover women or insecure women with (naturally too empathetically biased for fem) men, they've 'trained' to be expendable utilities. Destructive to any other relationship, that neither gives them attention nor follows imposed template - normalizing hers.
Popularized on chicktok.
Hypocrisy call-out:
Equivalent to clingy or virtue signaling female, that fakes to love a man, for attention or other gain - similar to thot/tradthot. Like looking for soft life pseudo-trad bimbo-for-hire gold diggers. Or by chasing high SMV man, while claiming it doesn't matter.
Any loving a man female being shamed by the seething flock of arrogant/snobbish control freak women - she doesn't place above him. (her commitment to the daily choice to love = loyally serving/submitting/tolerating/etc being useful to him - to add to his life, not harm it; not having others on the same level or above him in any way)
Anyone on any level sub to man or not hating men - supportive and pleasing to be with, instead of: impudent, greedy, demanding, egotistical, hedonistic, hubristic, transactional, harmful.. - overall repulsive, expecting simping/slaving for them.
Pecking at her like psychopathic chickens; exploitative or despising men, want to manipulatively impose control upon them (it's all the projections they say about men, but in reverse, being a twisted, incapable of empathy, parody on masculine herself), placing their flock of women above the man.
From either leftover women or insecure women with (naturally too empathetically biased for fem) men, they've 'trained' to be expendable utilities. Destructive to any other relationship, that neither gives them attention nor follows imposed template - normalizing hers.
Popularized on chicktok.
Hypocrisy call-out:
Equivalent to clingy or virtue signaling female, that fakes to love a man, for attention or other gain - similar to thot/tradthot. Like looking for soft life pseudo-trad bimbo-for-hire gold diggers. Or by chasing high SMV man, while claiming it doesn't matter.
by veinsofgold May 24, 2025
Get the Pick memug. A girl who goes out of their way to get guys to game with her, who will do other females dirty and cause issues to keep boys to themselves.
by EmoNinjaPanda April 3, 2022
Get the Pick Me Girlmug. A femcel term meaning a normal, rational and usually attractive woman, who is not a salty generalising misandrist.
It is a coping term that femcels love using because nobody wants to date them for their horrible behavior (i.e., Nobody picks them.)
It is a coping term that femcels love using because nobody wants to date them for their horrible behavior (i.e., Nobody picks them.)
Femcel: All men are bad, and I hate all men because none of them want to date me.
Pick me girl: That's not a nice thing to say, stop generalising all men.
Femcel: OMG you are putting women down, you are such a pick-me girl!!!
Pick me girl: That's not a nice thing to say, stop generalising all men.
Femcel: OMG you are putting women down, you are such a pick-me girl!!!
by Washington's Spoon February 6, 2025
Get the Pick me girlmug. A girl or boy (usually a girl) who acts like she doesn't need help, but then makes a "mistake" because she or he wants attention. A pick-me is also very dramatic.
Pick-me: "Hi!"
Person 1: "Hello! Oh can I help you carry those?"
Pick-me: "I'm ok thank you! *falls on purpose*"
Person 1: "OMG! Are you ok?"
Pick-me: "yes.... ow!"
Person 1: "What?!"
Pick-me: "My leg hurts.... i need to go to to the ER!!!"
Person 2: "Bro shes such a pick me"
Person 1: "Hello! Oh can I help you carry those?"
Pick-me: "I'm ok thank you! *falls on purpose*"
Person 1: "OMG! Are you ok?"
Pick-me: "yes.... ow!"
Person 1: "What?!"
Pick-me: "My leg hurts.... i need to go to to the ER!!!"
Person 2: "Bro shes such a pick me"
by i.like.cats December 11, 2023
Get the Pick-memug. The term pick me is used for people who specifically drag attention to themselves. Wanting people to feel sorry for them or just being sorry individuals themselves.
by Pheonix king March 14, 2022
Get the Pick memug. by Truth only, PERIODD! April 23, 2022
Get the Pick me girlmug. A “Pick me” individual is an individual who belongs to a marginalized group within a society who seeks approval from the dominant hegemonic group by repeatedly reiterating the validity of negative biases held by the dominant hegemony against the “Pick me’s” own group.
The desperation for the approval can lay in the Pick me’s poor self confidence, seen as a way highlight theirselves without highlighting oneself, and an avenue for political or financial gain
The desperation for the approval can lay in the Pick me’s poor self confidence, seen as a way highlight theirselves without highlighting oneself, and an avenue for political or financial gain
Candace was unable to find a long term boyfriend until she became a Pick me and began to appealing towards misogynistic men by agreeing with their misogyny.
by Incredulous Johnny January 16, 2024
Get the Pick memug.