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pillow talk

Talking about pillows while usually laying on said pillows.
Person A Pillow Talk: "Mmmm these pillows are so soft"
Person B Pillow Talk: "Yes, I believe I too will lay my head on these pillows"
by Jake J June 11, 2006
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pillow talk

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pillow talk

I gagged during pillow talk when her nipple tickled my uvula
by phreak May 24, 2004
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pillow talk

talking on the phone really late at night usually when no one is around. could lead to phone sex or very intimate conversations.
I knew it was pillow talk time when she called me and told me she was in bed with just a t shirt.
by dawnSOdope 02.19.2016 September 7, 2016
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pillow talk

The muffled grunts and groans of a partner open ended definition whise face is buried in a sleeping accessory
"Mppphhhh-Mmmmmphhhh Gnhhhhhhhhhhhhh Rrrrrrrrrrrr"
by saanaalle March 17, 2004
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Pillow Talk

Contrary to the top definition, Pillow Talk actually has two connotations.

The first connotation is the most thought of one. It's intimate talk with your romantic partner in bed, either before or after sex (but usually after). It is usually at this moment where all personal thoughts, desires and troubles are revealed in a candid tone. Those thoughts you've locked away during daytime are now front and center, completely transparent to your partner. Pillow talk can really be anything, it can be goofy or serious, but the main distinction is that everything spoken is 100% candid and true to themselves. No pretense, just you being you.

The second connotation is less restrictive and applies more generally. Here, Pillow Talk is referring to the intimate deep conversations between two or more people within a platonic relationship (e.g. friend, colleague). It often takes place in a location that stimulates bonding and conversation. For example, a literal sleepover with your friends can spur pillow talk, or a night out at a pub with your bros. Again, same meaning applies here. The conversations are usually very candid and lasts for hours, no pretense whatsoever.

Overall, pillow talk is a crucial component in relationships and its effect can be very therapeutic.
Example 1(A): During pillow talk, Amy revealed her troubled past with her abusive alcoholic father. His boyfriend consoled her and she felt a lot better.
Example 1(B): See any episode of two and a half men

Example 2: Jake and his buddies had a sleepover and they had a long pillow talk about anxiety and depression and seeked each other's help/advice.
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Pillow Talking

Talking shit about one person to another person for personal gain.
Brah, I know you were pillow talking with that girl about me just so you could fuck with her.
by LilSwipe July 7, 2017
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