when a person (the granter) is super quick with another and is extremely perturbed by someone asking them a
simple question. they (the granter) usually interupts the first person before they
even get their question out. then they (the granter) immediately try and degrade the first person.
Example #
1:
A Dad asking his son a question because the Dad is interested in what his son did at school today-
Dad (intended question): Hi Grant How was your school
day?
Dad (actual attemped question): Hi Grant How was .....?
TheGranter (with "granting" behavior): No Dad!
Stop asking me questions! I'm, tired,
sick, hungary, hate you, you're stupid and you're bothering me, you alway do this so leave me alone, etc.
Example #2:
A Dad asking his son about why he didn't eat his
breakfast because the Dad is concered about his son's health and welfare-
Dad (intended question): Grant, you didn't finish the nice breakfast I made for you. What's wrong?
Dad (actual attemped question): Grant, you...
TheGranter (with "granting" behavior): Stop it Dad! I hate this
food. It makes me
sick. I've never liked it. You just do this to make me upset. I hate you.
