A philanthropist for all types of fuckery. The member of your group that provides the UMPH in triumph, the PART in party, the MAN in manhood. Typically sought after by the opposite sex, as his/her smile is an invite to his schemes of fuckery.
That guy with the black jacket over there at the bar, smiling - he's the philayvanh of the group.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.