Someone who is tolerant and doesn't kill and wish harm on every gay person they see. Word started by a church of 70, featured on the Tyra Banks show that hate gay people and blame everything from Katrina to 911 on gay people. See God Hates Fags.
*Harry walks by a gay bar.*
*Harry gets shot by a brown-toothed women yelling 'fag enabler'*
Erin's parents enable her and her brother by giving them cigarettes just after he had just quit smoking. If you're a smoker or have other addictions and have parents like hers, don't count on quitting because they will just lure you back into your old addictions.
someone who will assist and/or defend another person, usually a friend or family member, in their psychotic behavior; for the sole purpose of being needed to get their asses out of trouble so they can hold it over their heads and bitch about it forever.
Brenda is such an enabler, she likes to bitch about what addict kids she has to her friends/family, though she's the one that provided the drugs.
A girl who provides blow jobs or hand jobs to a select guy she really has no intrest in. But doesnt want to offend him once he's whipped it out, so just goes along with it.
Friend #1: She is such a penis enabler.
Friend #2: No,She just felt bad once he alreadytook it out.
A good person, who is accepting of most people, mainly homosexuals. Initially intended as an insult, but vastly unaffective seeing as most fag enablers are proud to be fag enablers.
-Did you hear about that fag enabler Heith Ledger?
-Yeah, it's a shame we lost such an open-minded person.