10 definitions by Mike Martlet
A type of heel on a woman's shoe that is less than 1 cm wide at the tip. The original stiletto heels in 1953 were about 4 inches high and were made of hardwood sheathed in steel or were solid aluminium with screw in steel tips. Though some of today's stiletto heels have exposed steel or brass heels, since 1958 up to present they have been mostly made from hard plastic with a steel tube inside to strengthen them; the steel tips have a thin metal rod that fits very tightly into this tube.
Today's stiletto heels can be as thin as 0.5 cm and as low as 1.5 inches or as high as 5 inches; any higher generally requires a thick platform sole as in the modern pole dancer shoes where the often transparent moulded plastic platform unit has a 6 inch heel and a 2 inch platform sole. Such shoes are also quite popular for “ballbusting”
They were once seen as dainty and fragile, but both the damage that they caused to floors and being named after a thin lethal dagger, means that nowadays most people see them as being dangerous. They have thus taken on sado-masochistic connotations and though most people would never admit it, they fascinate both men and women because of their lethal power. The stiletto heeled leather boot (kinky boot) has always been the symbol of the dominatrix and this item has passed into the mainstream to become a standard fashion item for the modern woman.
High heeled shoes have always been regarded as sexy, not just for their body altering and leg lengthening effect, but in themselves; the heel is a phallic symbol and the arch under the heel is a vaginal symbol. But the stiletto has this extra lethal dimension in that they are capable of piercing things such as testicles for instance. Team them with pointed toes, particularly the new long pointed toes (a phallic symbol in itself!), and you have an incredible instrument of either pleasure or castration! Stiletto heels whether boots, sandals, slippers or pumps are sometimes used in sexual foreplay. The thinnest heels are thin enough to insert into the end of the male penis and push down a good 3 inches or so and the heels can also be used along with pointed toes to playfully kick and tease the testicles. During the sex act the heels can be used as spurs to urge the male on or slow him down and for the male, the combination pain and pleasure of heels in the thighs and calves together with nails in the back and the sexual orgasm can give a tremendous endorphin rush!
Contrary to popular belief amongst many men and women who don't wear them, with practice they are not difficult to walk in and today's career women can be seen running for trains, hopping on and off subways and buses and hurrying up and down stairs. Some will tell you that they feel confident and even invincible in business meetings and presentations; their distractive 'erection getting' qualities means that while the men are busy trying to wrestle with thoughts of sex, they can take advantage of them and win the argument or the deal.
Much to the disgust of many 40 and 50 something feminists, it is the stiletto clad post-feminist modern 'have it all' career woman of today who is reaping the hard earned benefits of the feminist era and she is using her sexuality to get ahead even further, - but on her own terms not the men's. It's not for nothing that those successful and ruthless women on Wall Street and in the City district of London were and are called "Spike-Heeled Power Bitches"!
The pointed toe stiletto-heeled pump (or court shoe) once the symbol of female oppression, has become the long pointed toed stiletto heeled ankle boot that is now the symbol of the get ahead career woman!
Today's stiletto heels can be as thin as 0.5 cm and as low as 1.5 inches or as high as 5 inches; any higher generally requires a thick platform sole as in the modern pole dancer shoes where the often transparent moulded plastic platform unit has a 6 inch heel and a 2 inch platform sole. Such shoes are also quite popular for “ballbusting”
They were once seen as dainty and fragile, but both the damage that they caused to floors and being named after a thin lethal dagger, means that nowadays most people see them as being dangerous. They have thus taken on sado-masochistic connotations and though most people would never admit it, they fascinate both men and women because of their lethal power. The stiletto heeled leather boot (kinky boot) has always been the symbol of the dominatrix and this item has passed into the mainstream to become a standard fashion item for the modern woman.
High heeled shoes have always been regarded as sexy, not just for their body altering and leg lengthening effect, but in themselves; the heel is a phallic symbol and the arch under the heel is a vaginal symbol. But the stiletto has this extra lethal dimension in that they are capable of piercing things such as testicles for instance. Team them with pointed toes, particularly the new long pointed toes (a phallic symbol in itself!), and you have an incredible instrument of either pleasure or castration! Stiletto heels whether boots, sandals, slippers or pumps are sometimes used in sexual foreplay. The thinnest heels are thin enough to insert into the end of the male penis and push down a good 3 inches or so and the heels can also be used along with pointed toes to playfully kick and tease the testicles. During the sex act the heels can be used as spurs to urge the male on or slow him down and for the male, the combination pain and pleasure of heels in the thighs and calves together with nails in the back and the sexual orgasm can give a tremendous endorphin rush!
Contrary to popular belief amongst many men and women who don't wear them, with practice they are not difficult to walk in and today's career women can be seen running for trains, hopping on and off subways and buses and hurrying up and down stairs. Some will tell you that they feel confident and even invincible in business meetings and presentations; their distractive 'erection getting' qualities means that while the men are busy trying to wrestle with thoughts of sex, they can take advantage of them and win the argument or the deal.
Much to the disgust of many 40 and 50 something feminists, it is the stiletto clad post-feminist modern 'have it all' career woman of today who is reaping the hard earned benefits of the feminist era and she is using her sexuality to get ahead even further, - but on her own terms not the men's. It's not for nothing that those successful and ruthless women on Wall Street and in the City district of London were and are called "Spike-Heeled Power Bitches"!
The pointed toe stiletto-heeled pump (or court shoe) once the symbol of female oppression, has become the long pointed toed stiletto heeled ankle boot that is now the symbol of the get ahead career woman!
His manhood grew stiff in anticipation as the stacatto click of approaching stiletto heels grew nearer.....
by Mike Martlet May 15, 2005
The term “Kinky Boots” was coined in the UK in the early 1960s when high-heeled boots, which had previously been worn in the 'underground' fetish and sadomasochistic world of the Dominatrix and her clients, broke into mainstream female fashion. The term 'sexual kink' (kink meaning not entirely straight) was used to describe an unusual sexual desire that was not sufficiently deviant (or bent) enough to attract the word perversion. Since men who were attracted to women in boots (which symbolised power) were still basically heterosexual, the term kinky rather than pervert (which at that time was applied to homosexuals) was applied to them. The term thus became applied to the boots that were worn by women because of their previous association with S&M.
The original "Kinky Boots" were calf length (and later knee length) pull on black leather 4 inch stiletto heeled boots with pointed toes. This was the kind of boot worn by Honor Blackman (Cathy Gale) and Dianna Rigg (Emma Peel) in the original "Avengers" television series; Honor Blackman and Patrick McNee (John Steed) cut a single record called "Kinky Boots" which hit the UK charts at that time. The boots were soon available in other colours, white being popular, and all heel heights. Later, from the mid 60's onwards, the stiletto went out of fashion and calf and even thigh boots with lower thick heels or even flat heels came into fashion. These made it across the 'pond' to the states and were called "GO GO Boots" in the US; however in the UK they were mostly still called "Kinky Boots" and the term was still being applied to the high-heeled platform boots (a very big hit in the UK) of the 1970's.
Boots are such a staple female fashion these days, that the term is now only used for the original type of Dominatrix S&M boot that gave rise to the term in the first place, - outrageously sexy very high stiletto boots, generally of thigh length and in either black or white or bright shiny colours. A film of the same name was released last year (2005) and was about an ailing company of high quality traditional male shoemakers which found a new lease of life making high heeled fetish footwear for transvestites, S&M lovers and the sex industry generally.
The original "Kinky Boots" were calf length (and later knee length) pull on black leather 4 inch stiletto heeled boots with pointed toes. This was the kind of boot worn by Honor Blackman (Cathy Gale) and Dianna Rigg (Emma Peel) in the original "Avengers" television series; Honor Blackman and Patrick McNee (John Steed) cut a single record called "Kinky Boots" which hit the UK charts at that time. The boots were soon available in other colours, white being popular, and all heel heights. Later, from the mid 60's onwards, the stiletto went out of fashion and calf and even thigh boots with lower thick heels or even flat heels came into fashion. These made it across the 'pond' to the states and were called "GO GO Boots" in the US; however in the UK they were mostly still called "Kinky Boots" and the term was still being applied to the high-heeled platform boots (a very big hit in the UK) of the 1970's.
Boots are such a staple female fashion these days, that the term is now only used for the original type of Dominatrix S&M boot that gave rise to the term in the first place, - outrageously sexy very high stiletto boots, generally of thigh length and in either black or white or bright shiny colours. A film of the same name was released last year (2005) and was about an ailing company of high quality traditional male shoemakers which found a new lease of life making high heeled fetish footwear for transvestites, S&M lovers and the sex industry generally.
He groaned as he felt his manhood stir when she placed the cool smooth leather sole of one of her shiny black kinky boots on his naked thigh. He saw his embarrassment reflected back at him in its black patent leather shaft as he winced when the sharp cold metal stiletto heel came into contact with his knee; she laughed softly.....
by Mike Martlet May 27, 2006
Kicking, kneeing or punching the testicles of a male deliberately.
Women find testicles a welcome vulnerability in an otherwise much stronger assailant in self-defence; the famous kick in the balls is a great equalizer.
Additionally, because testicles, along with the penis, are an observable difference in the sexes and because they are what make a man a man, they are often the target (both mental and real!) of female hate (and revenge!) for making men “the way they are”!
Because of the way that an otherwise powerful male can be reduced to a ‘quivering jelly’ by a well aimed punch, knee or kick (in the latter case even by a slight female in ‘suitable’ footwear), many women, and young adolescent or teenage girls in particular, find it extremely amusing to cause pain to a man in this way. The normal empathy accorded to a fellow human being in pain is absent for the most part because the female does not have similar organs herself and is thus unable to put herself in the place of the victim. The fact that testicles are at the very centre of male sexuality and the sex act and pregnancy itself, seems to add an extra sexual dimension; many women and girls become sexually aroused at both the prospect of causing testicular pain and the actual act of doing so. The idea of male nullification is a strangely arousing subject to many women and girls.
Interestingly, when a mammal is in pain, because of the endorphin release in the body’s attempt to attenuate the pain, the endorphins can produce a sexual high. This endorphin release is greater if the male is aroused sexually as the sex act itself often exposes the testicles to trauma as they impact upon and are trapped and squeezed against the female body. The male must continue despite the pain for the survival of the species, so natural selection has provided for the extra release of endorphins to ensure that the male does continue by counteracting and blocking the pain with pleasure. Women and girls please note, if a man is sexually aroused and self defence is called for, as in a rape or attempted rape, you will have to kick considerably harder than usual to dissuade the man from the attack!
This has led to a by far from modern but increasingly popular phenomenon called “ball-busting”; an activity where women and girls kick men in the testicles for the pleasure of either one or both of the parties involved. In the consenting act of ball-busting the above mentioned endorphin release in the male is sometimes made greater by the psychological effect viz; - that “otherwise caring women have knowingly caused pain to my sex organs for their own pleasure, despite knowing that it could damage me for life”, - ergo the act is a sexual one. In grown women ball-busting, unless it is in revenge or punishment for some wrongdoing, such as infidelity or an act of male chauvinism or sexual harassment, is usually between consenting partners. In young adolescent and teenage girls however, it is often for their own sole pleasure as, because of either a lack of understanding or a lack of care, it is carried out with too much force causing real injury. Kicking unexpectedly from behind or from the side, it is possible with the currently fashionable long and sharp pointed toed shoes and boots to rupture (burst) the fragile epididymis with only a fairly moderate kick; apart from intense agony this, whilst still leaving the male intact as a male, will render that particular testicle impotent. In fact such concentrated energy can be obtained at the tip of the pointed toe of these shoes or boots, that a well aimed kick that traps the testicle against the body or side of the leg, can rupture the actual testicle itself. The testicle will then be unable to repair itself and will ‘die’. It should almost go without saying that a stiletto heel will cause the same effect in a kick to a prone victim; and if used to stand on the victims testicles in the case where the testicles are placed on a table or on the floor (with the victim lying face down), these thin heels will penetrate the scrotum and testicle entirely, - right through to the floor! Again the victim will not only be in considerable and helpless agony (he may die from shock), his testicle will be entirely useless and if both testicles have suffered this fate, he will effectively have been castrated! Without the testosterone produced by his now dead testicles, will no longer be a ‘man’ in the real sense and will start to take on certain female characteristics.
That a direct connection exists between the rapid rise and almost universal adoption of such very long pointed and thin heeled footwear (across all female age groups) on the one hand, and an underlying and partly subliminal female fascination with testicular destruction on the other hand, cannot be entirely discounted!
A similar connection was observed in the late 1990’s between the rapid increase in popularity of “ball-busting” and the platform and chunky heeled square toed shoe and boot craze! Many young women reportedly felt powerful in shoes that seemed to ‘say’ “kick”! However, despite the fact that these bulkier shoes cause an incredible amount of paralysing pain initially, by their large size ensuring that the both testicles and thus more nerve endings are involved in the kick or stomp, it is not usually possible to cause lasting damage so easily. A woman or girl would have to be more determined, such as stomping them on the floor in some sort of mad Spanish dance or kicking them against a warm concrete step.
Ball busting desires in males are not surprisingly connected with both masochism and either shoe/boot and/or foot and leg fetishism. The sexual high created by the female striking the testicles with the fetish object can cause ejaculation that in some cases is prolonged and copious in quantity.
Ball-busting is of course not solely a heterosexual phenomenon, it as might be expected, a homosexual phenomenon also and is at least as popular in homosexual circles as it is in heterosexual ones. It also has its bisexual advocates where normally heterosexual men are involved with either transsexual males or transvestite males; or even males whose only concession to transvestism is the wearing of women’s high-heeled shoes or boots. In this latter case, the kicker uses the shoes or boots to kick the other man in the testicles whilst openly masturbating himself! The juxtaposition that takes place is supposedly that the kicker looking down on the scene and watching the women’s shoe or boot strike the testicles of the other man, becomes in his mind also the kicked man as well as being the kicker, - who is not he, but the fantasy woman of his dreams! The receiver supposedly gets the ball-busting thrill with the added masochistic humiliation and embarrassment that he isn’t supposed to feel sexual pleasure at all because it is being done to him by another man, - and yet he can’t help but feel sexual pleasure because of his addiction to the women’s high heeled fetish objects which are the direct instruments of his sexual pain!
Women find testicles a welcome vulnerability in an otherwise much stronger assailant in self-defence; the famous kick in the balls is a great equalizer.
Additionally, because testicles, along with the penis, are an observable difference in the sexes and because they are what make a man a man, they are often the target (both mental and real!) of female hate (and revenge!) for making men “the way they are”!
Because of the way that an otherwise powerful male can be reduced to a ‘quivering jelly’ by a well aimed punch, knee or kick (in the latter case even by a slight female in ‘suitable’ footwear), many women, and young adolescent or teenage girls in particular, find it extremely amusing to cause pain to a man in this way. The normal empathy accorded to a fellow human being in pain is absent for the most part because the female does not have similar organs herself and is thus unable to put herself in the place of the victim. The fact that testicles are at the very centre of male sexuality and the sex act and pregnancy itself, seems to add an extra sexual dimension; many women and girls become sexually aroused at both the prospect of causing testicular pain and the actual act of doing so. The idea of male nullification is a strangely arousing subject to many women and girls.
Interestingly, when a mammal is in pain, because of the endorphin release in the body’s attempt to attenuate the pain, the endorphins can produce a sexual high. This endorphin release is greater if the male is aroused sexually as the sex act itself often exposes the testicles to trauma as they impact upon and are trapped and squeezed against the female body. The male must continue despite the pain for the survival of the species, so natural selection has provided for the extra release of endorphins to ensure that the male does continue by counteracting and blocking the pain with pleasure. Women and girls please note, if a man is sexually aroused and self defence is called for, as in a rape or attempted rape, you will have to kick considerably harder than usual to dissuade the man from the attack!
This has led to a by far from modern but increasingly popular phenomenon called “ball-busting”; an activity where women and girls kick men in the testicles for the pleasure of either one or both of the parties involved. In the consenting act of ball-busting the above mentioned endorphin release in the male is sometimes made greater by the psychological effect viz; - that “otherwise caring women have knowingly caused pain to my sex organs for their own pleasure, despite knowing that it could damage me for life”, - ergo the act is a sexual one. In grown women ball-busting, unless it is in revenge or punishment for some wrongdoing, such as infidelity or an act of male chauvinism or sexual harassment, is usually between consenting partners. In young adolescent and teenage girls however, it is often for their own sole pleasure as, because of either a lack of understanding or a lack of care, it is carried out with too much force causing real injury. Kicking unexpectedly from behind or from the side, it is possible with the currently fashionable long and sharp pointed toed shoes and boots to rupture (burst) the fragile epididymis with only a fairly moderate kick; apart from intense agony this, whilst still leaving the male intact as a male, will render that particular testicle impotent. In fact such concentrated energy can be obtained at the tip of the pointed toe of these shoes or boots, that a well aimed kick that traps the testicle against the body or side of the leg, can rupture the actual testicle itself. The testicle will then be unable to repair itself and will ‘die’. It should almost go without saying that a stiletto heel will cause the same effect in a kick to a prone victim; and if used to stand on the victims testicles in the case where the testicles are placed on a table or on the floor (with the victim lying face down), these thin heels will penetrate the scrotum and testicle entirely, - right through to the floor! Again the victim will not only be in considerable and helpless agony (he may die from shock), his testicle will be entirely useless and if both testicles have suffered this fate, he will effectively have been castrated! Without the testosterone produced by his now dead testicles, will no longer be a ‘man’ in the real sense and will start to take on certain female characteristics.
That a direct connection exists between the rapid rise and almost universal adoption of such very long pointed and thin heeled footwear (across all female age groups) on the one hand, and an underlying and partly subliminal female fascination with testicular destruction on the other hand, cannot be entirely discounted!
A similar connection was observed in the late 1990’s between the rapid increase in popularity of “ball-busting” and the platform and chunky heeled square toed shoe and boot craze! Many young women reportedly felt powerful in shoes that seemed to ‘say’ “kick”! However, despite the fact that these bulkier shoes cause an incredible amount of paralysing pain initially, by their large size ensuring that the both testicles and thus more nerve endings are involved in the kick or stomp, it is not usually possible to cause lasting damage so easily. A woman or girl would have to be more determined, such as stomping them on the floor in some sort of mad Spanish dance or kicking them against a warm concrete step.
Ball busting desires in males are not surprisingly connected with both masochism and either shoe/boot and/or foot and leg fetishism. The sexual high created by the female striking the testicles with the fetish object can cause ejaculation that in some cases is prolonged and copious in quantity.
Ball-busting is of course not solely a heterosexual phenomenon, it as might be expected, a homosexual phenomenon also and is at least as popular in homosexual circles as it is in heterosexual ones. It also has its bisexual advocates where normally heterosexual men are involved with either transsexual males or transvestite males; or even males whose only concession to transvestism is the wearing of women’s high-heeled shoes or boots. In this latter case, the kicker uses the shoes or boots to kick the other man in the testicles whilst openly masturbating himself! The juxtaposition that takes place is supposedly that the kicker looking down on the scene and watching the women’s shoe or boot strike the testicles of the other man, becomes in his mind also the kicked man as well as being the kicker, - who is not he, but the fantasy woman of his dreams! The receiver supposedly gets the ball-busting thrill with the added masochistic humiliation and embarrassment that he isn’t supposed to feel sexual pleasure at all because it is being done to him by another man, - and yet he can’t help but feel sexual pleasure because of his addiction to the women’s high heeled fetish objects which are the direct instruments of his sexual pain!
Her ballbusting technique was to alternate kicks to his testicles with the wooden platform of her high-heeled clogs and to rub the tip of his manhood with the rippled rubber sole. She sensed the time had arrived and gave him a hard ballbusting kick straight into both testicles; he cried out and as he ejaculated she continued to kick him feeling her own orgasm rising inside her.
by Mike Martlet May 15, 2005