A stressel is a vessel into which you can deposit or relieve yourself of stress.
This could often be a person, for example a friend or confidante, who absorbs your stress when they listen to you go on and on about work or
something.
Alternatively a stressel could be a literal vessel, such as the pint of beer you
eventually drop that guy's mobile into after it's been ringing
incessantly for the last half an hour. Try it. It's fun.
I'm
pissed off with just being your stressel, bruce. I have my own problems too.(Possible
neighbours usage)
"Who's been using the bird-bath as a stressel again?" Said Giles as he fished yet another cowbell out. (Possible Emmerdale usage)
"Pass me that stressel, I need to be sick." (Possible
Sex and the City usage.)