Pronunciation: Rafnēr
Alternate written form: RAFNOR
1. Random Arousal For No Reason
This common phenomenon experienced mostly by males is the sudden arousal of the penis, at sporadic times, without watching or thinking of anything that might cause arousal.
The reason why it is so common is that there is no way to predict or prevent it. It just happens, often in times where the male desires not to be aroused, due to the current situation he is encountered in.
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.