A personality trait is often thought of as labels you conform to (e.g. introvert/extrovert, shy/sociable), but really it should be thought of as something which makes a person unique.
In other words, personality traits refers to the idiosyncrasies of an individual.
Example 1: Brianna hated wearing braces in her middle to high school years, but ultimately it became her personality trait as it defined who she was.
Example 2: Being a night owl is a personality trait
Example 3: Having an odd and unusual kink is a personality trait as it is highly idiosyncratic
Something that doesn't exist in reality, life is nothing more than an unbreakable illusion that we kid ourselves with. Telling ourselves that we matter, that we're unique and special while truthfully, we are nothing more than mirrors in the eyes of ourselves. Life is nothing more than a lesson we must teach ourselves, whether its something big or small. You must learn something from life for life to end.
Cigarette: Northern slang for a cigarette, used oft by mashed up mancunian ravers becasue of the resemblance of a hot(electric)stove to the end of a lit cigarette. Originated circa 1991 in the early halcyon days of the rave culture; we speculate during a drug fuelled hallucination by said manc.
'fuck me noel, i am bolloxed, is that a ciggy in your mouth, or the stove from me 'nans kitchen'/
General use: 'Give us a stove you cunt'