A word used to induce fear and disgust upon your closest friends and enemies alike. First used as a cute nickname (it wasn't ever cute), it gradually evolved into an insult. Calling someone "koutoukompempekaki" serves to assert your dominance over them. Has a mostly ironic usage.
-Good morning loser -Good morning koutoukompempekaki mou♥♥♥ :)
-Oh god pls don't
-Who's the loser now, kotopolo
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.