Short for “kalian lagi bahas apa sih guys”, an Indonesian slang phrase used when someone enters a conversation (usually in a group chat) and has no idea what everyone is talking about. Often used casually or jokingly to ask for context.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.