When a chick likes you, but you hold to your honor and deny her. This is also commonly known as "kangay" because the person in question always ends up gay or with a cock in their ass. Sometimes multiple cocks.
steve: "hey, did you hear that celeste confessed to mark?" bob: "yeah, he totally pulled a kanbei on her." minglong: "..."
by david grummons January 26, 2008