A hot gravy spoon is when two people (or more) upon completion of sex, without cleaning up the sex juices (gravy), proceed to spoon one another and fall asleep.
We had hot sex last night then afterwards, we spooned in our sex gravy. It was AWESOME! It was a hot gravy spoon, for sure!
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.