A lesbian who has never slept with a man.
Sometimes I forget my girlfriend has slept with men... I'm a gold star lesbian.
by GirlNextDoor636 May 11, 2006
A lesbian who has never had sex with a man. Usually used to demean others for questioning their sexuality. Almost always stuck up.

Usually the product of past abuse. Then they’re “purity” is held against others.

A believer in a gay hierarchy that doesn’t exist.
Regulate Lesbian: Hi.
Gold Star: I’m a Gold Star Lesbian so I’m better than you and always will be.
by Most People Smell September 26, 2018
A lesbian who shares a Costco gold membership with her partner.
Person A: I heard Hanna is a Gold Star Lesbian.

Person B: Ooh, they're Costco official??
by Maymaymayday January 23, 2022
A gold star lesbian is a lesbian who has never slept with a man and wouldn't intend to. Shane McCutcheon from the popular LGBT series from 2004-2009 had claimed to be a gold star lesbian. Gold star lesbians aren't made to shame lesbians or bisexual women for who've they slept with it is simply a term for those who have not and wouldn't intend on sleeping with men.
alice from the L word: I hear the wedding bells with you already
Cameron and shane from the L word: you're just jealous because we are two gold star lesbians who have found each other
by wastedtoast May 23, 2020
A lesbian who is disgusted by any a bi girl who would date and/or have sex with a man
Bi girl: oh that guys cute
Gold star lesbian: Ew you like guys? That's disgusting
by Ale.iex June 26, 2019
In case you don’t know, a gold star lesbian is a lesbian who does not discriminate against other wlw
by smoltresbien March 11, 2020