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Gold Star Lesbian 

A lesbian who shares a Costco gold membership with her partner.
Person A: I heard Hanna is a Gold Star Lesbian.

Person B: Ooh, they're Costco official??
Gold Star Lesbian by Maymaymayday January 22, 2022

Gold Star Lesbian 

A lesbian who has never had sex with a man. Usually used to demean others for questioning their sexuality. Almost always stuck up.

Usually the product of past abuse. Then they’re “purity” is held against others.

A believer in a gay hierarchy that doesn’t exist.
Regulate Lesbian: Hi.
Gold Star: I’m a Gold Star Lesbian so I’m better than you and always will be.
Gold Star Lesbian by Most People Smell September 25, 2018

Gold Star Lesbian 

A gold star lesbian is a lesbian who has never slept with a man and wouldn't intend to. Shane McCutcheon from the popular LGBT series from 2004-2009 had claimed to be a gold star lesbian. Gold star lesbians aren't made to shame lesbians or bisexual women for who've they slept with it is simply a term for those who have not and wouldn't intend on sleeping with men.
alice from the L word: I hear the wedding bells with you already
Cameron and shane from the L word: you're just jealous because we are two gold star lesbians who have found each other

Gold star lesbian 

A lesbian who is disgusted by any a bi girl who would date and/or have sex with a man
Bi girl: oh that guys cute
Gold star lesbian: Ew you like guys? That's disgusting
Gold star lesbian by Ale.iex June 26, 2019

Gold star lesbian 

In case you don’t know, a gold star lesbian is a lesbian who does not discriminate against other wlw

goldstar lesbian 

a lesbian who never has or intends to have sex with a man
goldstar lesbian by kriszta November 10, 2008
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The striver is an interesting phenomenon that is seen across college campuses. In essence, the striver is an over-achiever who comes from a working or middle class family. He may be an immigrant. He may have been a slacker in HS who was "born again" into an academic wunderkind. Or he may just be an over-achiever who is keeping at it.

The striver is willing to sacrifice his social life at the expense of Phi Beta Kappa and Summa Cum Laude. The striver is the guy who stays at the library long after you are gone. The striver is the guy who takes 30 credits/semester and considers anything below an A/4.0 failure. The striver doesn't work on campus, he is too busy finding ways to pad his resume instead of working retail or workstudy. The striver lets his grades pay his education by applying to ten scholarships a year.

The striver is a future Soros/Fullbright/Rhodes/Gates/Marshall/etc. fellow. The striver lives to study. For the striver, their fun comes from the rewards they expect to receive in return for their diligence. Be it Law School, B-School, academia, or politics. The striver seeks to find the American Dream through academic success.
Anthony was a striver. He transfered from a TTT to an IVY and graduated in 2 years. He studied his ass off and went to Penn Law. He got a Biglaw offer. But lost it all because of an unmoderated mesasgeboard.

Successful strivers:
- Barack Obama
- Harold Koh
Striver by URM Striver January 3, 2009
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