fellagirly Share definition Flag A lesbian who is neither butch or femme. Has both masculine and feminine traits. Similar to soft butch, hard femme, chap stick lesbian, etc. Girl 1: Is Danielle butch or femme? Girl 2: Oh hell, I don't know, I guess she's just fellagirly! fellagirly by Hella Fellagirly Girl March 8, 2011 Get the fellagirly mug.