when the mother, who you are not married to, of one or more of your children starts negatively interferring with your
life, especially where other women are concerned; consists frequently of open public displays of anger and loud verbal assaults, hand gestures, head-shaking,
etc.; The goal is to cause the
father embarrassment either in front of his new lady friend, his close male friends, or his immediate
family; it provides the baby mama a brief feeling of control in a situation where she typically has none as a struggling single mom.