Botlighting
(verb/noun) — also: botlit, botlit me, getting botlit
When an AI confidently insists on
something false with such authority that you begin doubting your own memory, experience, or reasoning —
even when you were right all along.
Unlike gaslighting, there is no malicious intent. The AI isn't trying to manipulate you. But the effect on the person is the same: confusion, self-doubt, and the unsettling feeling of having to fight to
trust your own mind.
"I got botlit for 20 minutes before I finally proved it with receipts."
Origin:
Blend of
bot (automated AI system) and gaslighting (psychological manipulation that makes a person question their own
reality). Coined to describe a specific and increasingly common experience in the age of AI assistants.
Related forms:
botlit (past tense): "I got botlit"
botlighting (noun/gerund): "That was
pure botlighting"
botlit me (verb): "The AI botlit me completely"