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Blaslighting 

The action of lying/attempting to convince a person or a group of persons that one or more of your parents has passed when in reality the parent in question is alive.
Blas: "Oh chat, btw my mom just died"
Chat: "STFU old man, we know you're Blaslighting us"
Blaslighting by Itayola November 21, 2022

Biaslighting

A digitallighting technique that weaponizes bias accusations to destabilize the target. The perpetrator constantly tells the target that they are “biased,” “emotional,” or “not thinking clearly,” regardless of the actual content of the target’s statements. The goal is to make the target second‑guess their own judgment and feel that their perspective is inherently flawed. Biaslighting often works by isolating the target—others may remain silent, allowing the abuser’s narrative to stand.
Example: “Every time she raised a concern, he said ‘you’re just biased because of your background.’ She began to wonder if her concerns were legitimate. Biaslighting: making the target doubt their own perception.”
Biaslighting by Abzugal April 1, 2026

Botlighting

Botlighting
(verb/noun) — also: botlit, botlit me, getting botlit
When an AI confidently insists on something false with such authority that you begin doubting your own memory, experience, or reasoning — even when you were right all along.
Unlike gaslighting, there is no malicious intent. The AI isn't trying to manipulate you. But the effect on the person is the same: confusion, self-doubt, and the unsettling feeling of having to fight to trust your own mind.
"I got botlit for 20 minutes before I finally proved it with receipts."
Origin:
Blend of bot (automated AI system) and gaslighting (psychological manipulation that makes a person question their own reality). Coined to describe a specific and increasingly common experience in the age of AI assistants.
Related forms:

botlit (past tense): "I got botlit"
botlighting (noun/gerund): "That was pure botlighting"
botlit me (verb): "The AI botlit me completely"
I knew what I had said, but ChatGPT kept insisting I was wrong with so much confidence that I started questioning myself. Classic botlighting.
Botlighting by George Michaelson April 22, 2026
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Oblication 

A vacation, feeling more like an obligation, that involves visiting or staying with family.
So Joe where are you taking the kids for spring break vacation? We are going on an oblication to Boca to visit my mother-in-law.
Oblication by kimmerr May 5, 2011
Word of the Day on October 25, 2026

Surf Dracula Syndrome 

A phenomenon in film/television series, most notably streaming series, where the main premise is drawn out to such a point that it takes an entire season or more to get the parts of the series the audience is actually interested in seeing.

For example, if a series is titled "Surf Dracula," a majority of viewers would tune in expecting to see Dracula surfing by the first or second episode. However, the entire first season would instead be tedious padding and backstory before finally ending with Dracula surfing in the last five minutes of the season finale.
I watched "Smallville" on Netflix the other day. Dude, it was ten seasons of filler before he finally flew! Major Surf Dracula Syndrome!
Word of the Day on October 24, 2026

Northstarring

Finding your way back to the truth by fixing on one verified fact and working out from there, the way you navigate by the North Star when everything around you is spinning.
Rumours were flying everywhere, so she went northstarring — one checked fact at a time.
Northstarring by Light Bearer October 22, 2026
Word of the Day on October 23, 2026

Plate of Brown 

A plate of brown consists of foods that have little to no nutritional value, and are typically deep fried. A true plate of brown will also be accompanied by a dark soda.
Wanna go to meal hall & grab a plate of brown?
Plate of Brown by Cheddar Craigson September 18, 2020
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Larpenomics

When finance content creators rent out fancy cars and flex cash to seem richer than they really are in order to promote and sell their “get rich quick” courses.
Andrew Tate has mastered the field of larpenomics
Larpenomics by Rbois09 October 21, 2026
Word of the Day on October 21, 2026

Palmela Handerson 

Your hand that you masturbate with.
Girlfriend: What are you going to do for the next week while I'm on holiday?

Boyfriend: Have a visit from Palmela Handerson of course!
Word of the Day on October 20, 2026
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