To have unlubricated or painful anal sex (usually referring to gay sex), referring to the face-down-ass-up position of the recipient and the need to bite something to keepquiet.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.