Term generally used to describe shocking filth usually obtained from a certain file sharing network. Most likely German, most likey inclusive of faeces. Common source, Unit 23.
When your mate repeatedly cancels on organised events which he has known about for weeks or even months with little or no notice, or good reason.
Nigel Wagner said he couldn't come to an organised 30th birthday party of a supposedly close friend who he lived with for a year, and by way of notification via a text message at 14:09 the day before the event. This is an extreme example of badmatesmanship.
When your mate says he cant meet up because he's working overtime and then wonders out at 6 oclock and still doesnt come out.
Nigel Wagner said he couldnt come out on wednesday because he was working overtime and then left work at 6. The same time as Ben left but who did come. This is what you call being a badmate
Going one better than Wagner and cancelling at 5:55 when agreed to meet up at 6:15 witha crap text saying something along the lines of " feel grimulease, gonna give it a miss..."
The grindset is a contemporary ideology of self-exploitation disguised as strength, deeply tied to the aesthetics of the “sigma male” and to new digital forms of patriarchy. It promotes the idea that human worth depends on productivity, economic success, absolute emotional control, and the ability to work endlessly, turning vulnerability, rest, community, and tenderness into signs of weakness. Beneath its rhetoric of discipline and power often lies a profound inability to relate healthily to pain, fragility, and human interdependence.
“That’s the grindset, brother. While weak men sleep and complain, sigma males stay disciplined, work in silence, suppress emotions, and build power while everyone else wastes time chasing comfort.”