the process that happens when you take a fictional character (probably a very large man) and say, "this one. he is now the babygirl"
sometimes you put him in a frilly pink dress !!
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.