When someone's personality is terrible and peopletry to justify the named person's behaviors by saying we should accept his personality. To be used in response to that.
-No he's not a bad person, that's just his personality.
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.