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Soft dom 

Kyoya Miyazaki from the tiktok account @Foolh4rdys.
Person: hey, do you know who Kyoya Miyazaki from tiktok is?

Person 2: oh he’s such a soft dom
Soft dom by Lemonademelons May 2, 2022

Soft Dominatrix

A female dom that orders the sub to do such things as rub her feet, massage her back and legs, etc. The dom controls when, where, and how the sub reaches gratification...or doesn't reach it as the case may be. As is typical, the sub must do whatever the dom requires. This type of role play generally does not include any forms of punishment or pain but is instead based on the dom just completely controlling the situation for her maximum enjoyment.
"First I had my sub buy me dinner and then rub my feet. Then, I had him bring me to climax with a toy. Only then did I allow him to pleasure himself while I watched. What a great night! I love being a Soft Dominatrix because I get what I want how I want it!"
Soft Dominatrix by Suzanna13 November 1, 2007

Soft-core Road Dome

When you get your penis sucked in the backseat of a moving vehicle without the drivers permission or knowledge.
My girl have me straight Soft-core Road Dome when my friend was driving us home.
Soft-core Road Dome by ootherone October 3, 2026
A softdom is a dominant sexual partner that chooses to express their dominance through praise and care rather than degradation. A softdom, for instance, may be physically dominant and aggressive while being verbally loving, appreciative, and gentle.
I didn’t realize he was a softdom until he started choking me while he said good girl and told me how pretty I looked.
Softdom by Terra Underhill July 17, 2022
Someone who is tranquil, kind and physically gifted by nature. A softdom is a person who is loving and gentle with eyes only for their partner but a powerful force to be reckoned with when they need to be. Both in a fight and in the bedroom. Don't be fooled by the soft dom's kind hearted demeanor
He's a soft dom. He likes to take complete control in the sheets; to maximize the satisfaction of both his and her pleasures. Afterwards he kisses her forehead, tucks her in and reminds her why she's worth it.

"I love my softdom boyfriend!"
Softdom by Succityfuccity798 July 23, 2020

Softdom Side 

Softdom Side

A Softdom Side Is a dominant sexual partner that chooses to express their dominance through praise and care rather than degradation. A softdom side, for instance, may be physically dominant and aggressive while being verbally loving, appreciative, and gentle, but at the same time they do not enjoy penetrative sex (giving or receiving), but will engage in other forms of sexual activity (making out, cuddling, mutual masturbation, etc).
"I didn’t realize he was a softdom side until he started choking me while we were cuddling and he said good sub and told me how cute I looked".
Softdom Side by Fashionfan26 August 28, 2023
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