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Proofsplaining

A Digitallighting technique where the perpetrator “explains” to the target why their evidence is insufficient, often while demanding an impossibly high standard of proof. The perpetrator adopts a condescending tone, lecturing the target on what “real evidence” looks like, moving goalposts, and claiming that any failure to meet their ever‑escalating standards proves the target is dishonest. Proofsplaining exhausts the target while making them appear incompetent or evasive.
Example: “She provided a screenshot; he explained why screenshots can be faked. She provided metadata; he explained why metadata isn’t proof. She provided a video; he said it could be deepfaked. Proofsplaining: endless lectures on evidence to avoid acknowledging it.”
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Proofsplaining

The act of demanding proof, receiving it, and then condescendingly “explaining” to the provider why their proof is not real proof – often using arbitrarily high standards or irrelevant criteria. The proofsplainer positions themselves as an authority on what counts as proof, while rejecting any that would actually satisfy a reasonable person. They may invoke “logic,” “Bayesian reasoning,” “standard of evidence,” or “philosophy of science” in a superficial way. Proofsplaining is a power move, turning a genuine exchange into a lecture.
Example: “She offered a mathematical proof for her theorem. He replied: ‘That’s not a proof – you didn’t explicitly list all axioms. Real proof requires formalization in first‑order logic. Let me explain what a real proof is…’ Proofsplaining: using high‑status jargon to dismiss valid reasoning.”
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