Not now dear Share definition Flag A Parenteese (The language of Parents) saying that can mean many things, such as: "Never", "I'm on the phone", and "Fuck off you uncleanly fetus I wish I never had you". Child - "Mummy I'm bored" Mum - "Not now dear" Not now dear by thegreatbenji December 16, 2022 Get the Not now dear mug.