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Dominator Culture

A model of culture and human relations based on hierarchy, ranking, power, and control. Masculinity is equated with control, conquest, and violence: men dominating women and children.

Opposite to Partnership Culture.

In a domination system...

Humans are flawed and dangerous.

Difference is equated with superiority or inferiority.

Power is used to control and destroy through hierarchies of domination.

Competition means "dog eat dog"; "every man for himself".

People cooperate to dominate others.

Huge gaps between haves and have-nots

Nature is a resource to be dominated, depleted and polluted.

Morality of insensitivity, control, and coercion.

(Based on the Center for Partnership Studies' summary of points from Riane Eisler's _The Power of Partnership_ and David Korten's _The Great Turning_)
Dominator culture teaches all of us that the core of our identity is defined by the will to dominate and control others. We are taught that this will to dominate is more biologically hardwired in males than in females. In actuality, dominator culture teaches us that we are all natural-born killers but that males are more able to realize the predator role. In the dominator model the pursuit of external power, the ability to manipulate and control others, is what matters most. When culture is based on a dominator model, not only will it be violent but it will frame all relationships as power struggles.
(bell hooks)
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Dom Dominator 

Another name for someone who often has a commanding influence or tries to exercise control over others and is often selfish and very pretentious. Comes from the term Dominator.
Rob:Shall we gwan down beach?
Jack:Yeah that sounds safe!
Bill:No i cba sounds swag lets go to town plus mans needs to get sum jeans.
jack:Ohh shut up you wasteman stop being such a Dom Dominator.
Rob:Yeah go play xbox or sumfing you noob.
Dom Dominator by Gary Browning September 18, 2011

Norminators 

Jace Norman's fandom. They have amazing edits and they are so nice to people , they respect everyone's opinion even if they don't agree to it :) Norminators are the sweetest fandom but if you hate on them or on there idol I suggest you to run away
Example : the meaning of norminators is Jace Norman's fandom
Norminators by Jace_Norman226 March 22, 2021

mominator 

A normal mother that will turn into a butt whupping machine any time if you threaten her child.
Crystal turned into a Mominator when the teacher told her that her precious son was needing extra tutoring in manners.
mominator by Queen Mominator February 3, 2014

Parent of the year nomination 

An ironic term to describe the complete meltdown of a child in a public space when accompanied by a parent.

Can also describe the looks others give you when either your child freaks out or you do something they disapprove of.
After five minutes of Rachel's tantrum on the floor of the toy section of the department store, Nathan finally put her over her shoulder and bundled her out to the car, his daughter giving him the parent of the year nomination the whole way.

or

Nathan knew he was going to get a few parent of the year nominations for sending Rachel to nursery school with cheese puffs as a snack, but there had been no time to shop.

Naominator 

The best person IN THE WORLD! Naominator is a nickname between Naomi and Terminator that's given to only the best Naomi's to prove how AMAZING they are! Naominators can accomplish ANYTHING - including stealing their best friends man drama-free! Not that one should, but it's easily accomplished amongst. Naominators are rare, as well as bro-goddesses that should be treated perfectly. When approached by a Naominator, one must immediately stop what they're doing and approach them by yelling "NAOMINATOR!" and running towards one to greet them.
Emma: Dude, I totally just saw a Naominator in our school!
Lauren: No, really? I thought they were a myth!
Emma: Yeah I know right me t- NAOMINATOR!
Naominator - Wassup!
Naominator by Emmanator:) July 6, 2011

niginator 

Jenny: OMG look at that Tyrone, he's such a niginator. Last weekend he stole my TV.
niginator by SexyMOFO October 17, 2013