When a parent tries to get you to meet/befriend a person by arranging/paying for activities to do with said person. Frangements aren't always successful, but they can sometimes be pretty epic!
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.