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A word often used to describe the feeling you get when you're disrespected, embarrassed, made fun of, or being played. Similar uses are "play me" "joaning" and "talking shit bout me."

"Hoe me", "Hoed me" and "hoeing" are all acceptable uses

**In light of the age old debate surrounding the correct spelling of ho vs. hoe: "hoe" has taken a more popular stance amongst users. This is simply slang and does not determine the intelligence of the user. nah mean?
Sweet: "Man my boss just tried to hoe me today"
Dude: "How he hoeing u?"
Sweet: "I screwed up an order and he gon call me out in front of everyone smh"
Dude: "He hoed yo ass lmao"
Hoe Me by Slangxplainer June 15, 2016
Urban Dictionary Merch
tried to play you, or scheme you

basically get something out of you, but going about it the wrong way
like if your friend says you're gay and you're not

You'll probably say "Jacob lowkey tried to hoe me"
hoe me by kiyoneej October 11, 2016
When one decides to not stick to a plan
Why the hell did Marquisha hoe me because she wanted that good dick?
hoe me by THAT RED HEAD CUNT January 25, 2018
Hoe me by Ducklet June 30, 2020

Hoe me over

Hoeing over is like screwing someone over but with a lot of hoe.
Sara: hey sorry we can’t study today like I promised but I’ll suck your dick if you do all my homework for the week

John: yah I’m not going to lie you hoe me over
Hoe me over by Spino July 10, 2018

Hoe me down

Don't hoe me down, jerald. Speak to me straight.
Hoe me down by nvgubxfgv January 29, 2018

gay hoe me 

Gay hoe me
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A group of people, typically women, searching through someone’s digital footprint in order to find more information about that person.
Susie wasn’t sure if her new Hinge match was a creep, so she assembled Galantir and they found out he used to post slurs on gaming forums.
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murderhobo 

In a tabletop game, a murderhobo is a player who murders NPCs indiscriminately. This is normally derogatory, referring to a player who totally ignores quests, dialog, backstory, trade, world building etc.

The term is most common with Dungeons and Dragons, but it can be applied to most RPGs where the player is allowed to kill most quest-giving NPCs and NPC traders. E.g. Elder Scrolls, Fallout, Divinity original sin.
DM: The sad little orphan girl tugs at Steve's trenchcoat to get his attention, and ask for help saving her pet dog from...
Steve: I'd like to roll a strength check against strangling the orphan.
Dave: I call dibs on the dog.
DM: You murderhobos disgust me.
murderhobo by Loup&S September 9, 2021
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In sales terms, a whale is a prospect that is significantly larger than an organization’s average customer.

Whales are large and extremely difficult to close. Due to their immense size, they are highly sought-after.

A whale is typically identified at first by a whale hunter on the sales team, but often requires cross-discipline participation in order to close; this includes assistance from operations, engineering, creative, client success, and business development teams.
"Shit...the sales director chewed me out on the sales call this morning. He's totally pissed that I have nothing in my pipeline. I've been focused on this one whale for so long that I haven't had time to prospect for normal-sized deals."
Whale by FQ_GFY February 3, 2020
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