genergy (ghen-er-gee): the undeniable aura or energy that surrounds one with homosexual preferences. Genergy is the 'frequency' that is picked up by those with gaydar.
1. When you told me about Pat I wasn't sure if he was gay or not, but now that I've seen him there is no denying his extreme genergy!
2. Luckily I have excellant gaydar, because his genergy is a little hard to pick up on at first.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.