A fly out chick is a female who pretends to be a model on instagram and on other social networks to try and get men to fly them out to exotic countries, where they partake in sexual actions for one night.
Alena models her body on instagram but doesn't in real life and seems to be living a lavish life. She is most definitely a fly-out chick.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.