Someone who makes it seem like they're interested in someone romantically, but once the other person falls into this trap they want nothing to do with it.
They may be extremely flirty and make slightly sexual comments, but don't be fooled, for its a trap. They don't actually want anything.
Person 1 "You know that girl Amanda?"
Person 2 "oh yeah! She seems totally into you, shes always being flirty and calls you sexy. You should ask her out"
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. Penguin Books,1992. p. 38)