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Female Dating Strategy 

A subreddit of mentally ill and personality disordered women with CPTSD, bipolar, BPD and more, bashing men constantly rather than focusing on actual dating strategies.
FDS Woman 1: "Men are such scrotes! All they do is wank off, watch porn and live in flith! They're animals"
Normal Human: "Didn't you just have a maniac episode about two weeks ago? You off your meds again?"
FDS Woman 2: "SHUT UP! We're Queens! Female Dating Strategy is life. Hail Feminism! Definitely not insane. MISOGYNY!!!"
Normal Human: "Whatever you say..."

Female Dating Strategy 

Female Dating Strategy Is a subreddit of full of women that warn and help other women understand the nature of males.
Great example is the post made earlier by a male calling these women “mentally ill and personality disordered women with CPTSD, bipolar, BPD and more” just because his nature is exposed by these women. Pointing out bad and manipulative behaviors by males is considered bashing.
Female Dating Strategy: red flag is when a male will call you crazy whenever you point out toxic or negative he is demonstrating.

Toxic male: A subreddit of mentally ill and personality disordered women with CPTSD, bipolar, BPD and more, bashing men constantly rather than focusing on actual dating strategies.

Female Dating Strategy 

A reddit community whose main goal is to show and teach women how to maneuver through all walks of life without relying on men or focusing on patriarchal standards. Their focal point is to demonstrate that not women do not and should not rely on boyfriends and/or husbands for achieving goals and supporting one's self.

They are very often accused of being a toxic hate group, have been called an echo chamber, and are likened to "femcels." They differentiate between what they call "high value men" and "low value men" by giving examples of each through their personal experiences with dating and marriage. There is also classification of "high value women" and "low value women." Much of the backlash they catch seems to be from mostly male groups and communities who participate in volatile online communities. Some examples include the pick-up artists subreddit, who refer to women as "plates," and many red-pill based groups who post openly about their disdain for women in general. In addition, many openly racist communities do not agree with the values held by Female Dating Strategy (or FDS).

The bottom line of FDS is to truly help women grow in ways will keep them from being manipulated, lied to, gaslighted, and exploited. You don't have to agree with everything they stand for to appreciate that underlying purpose.
The Female Dating Strategy subreddit has taught me so many things I will use in every walk of my life. It has helped me deal with past traumas, and has given me the ability to stay clear of potential future traumas.
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