It is when a man will not speak to you about anything difficult or out of his comfort zone without having a think, he just hides in the "cave" in his head until he is ready to come to his own conclusion. It is all about waiting for them to emerge if you want show you are understanding and supporting them.
When faced with any large decision or emotional stuff, men need to think matters through in their own head we call this "dansinthecaveagain". To get their thoughts straight before others influence interjects or undue complications are added. Once finished in the cave men will return to rethink any other changes that may occur. This is a long process which can be utterly frustrating to witness, stay the course girls they always come out for food/fun/football fixtures eventually.
the fear of seeing hallie dancing in a blank space for 7 hours with no music. it creates nightmares of this exact scene and causes people to wake up in tears and excruciating pain. some side effects of this phobia include crying, throwing up, screaming, fainting, and death.
hobo 1: “Yo did you hear about that guy ricky?”
hobo 2: “nah what happened to him?”
hobo 1: “he’s patient zero, the one who first contracted dancinghallophobia”
hobo 2: “oh shit man wouldn’t wanna be that guy i got minor dancinghallophobia already”
hobo 1:“yeah but he probably deserved it.”
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. PenguinBooks,1992. p. 38)