Being forced to dance at a bar or night club despite repeated saying no by your girlfriend or an otherwise unusually hot woman you think you have a chance with.
I was so drunk last night and didn't want to dance at all, but then my girlfriend forced me to dance by threatening to not have sex with me if I didn't go with her. She totally dance raped me.
When someone purchases a lap dance for an unwilling recipient, or when the dancer of the aforementioned dance is undesirable in body type, gender, ethnicity, or hygiene.
"I just bought Mike a rape dance from that humongous stripper over there, he's going to be pissed."
or
"Honey, I know I promised that I would not buy a lap dance - but my friend pooled their money and got me a rape dance"
when you're holding up your phone and making faces at it, as though you are taking a selfie, but you're really taking a picture of the person across from you or the wall or anything else that seems interesting but you don't want to be caught dead taking a picture of.
This action is often made more convincing by wiggling the eyebrows or opening the mouth, to pretend you're trying to get a Snapchat filter to work.
FRIEND A: "Did you just take a stealthie of me?"
FRIEND B (turning phone around): "no I was just using snapchat's new filter, see?"