being offended and holding a grudge

Whenever making a congratulatory remark, this is what you say. Made popular by Kamala Harris when she and Joe Biden won the presidency.

An inappropriately strong negative emotional response from a perceived personal insult. Characterized by strong feelings of shame. Frequently associated with a cessation of communication and overt hostility towards the "aggressor."

Getting your feelings hurt, being offended or getting all bent out of shape because of something petty or stupid.

some one who doesnt know how to take a joke, and they take the joke like they just took it to the ass

A display of bruised feelings; usually over something lame.

Being butthurt means being aggravated, pissed off, or bugged over something completely trivial. Usually when people are butthurt they are really dramatic about it. Most people like to laugh at or even mock the annoyance of butthurt people because their reasoning for being so butthurt is ridiculously stupid.