Pants with features such as zips, buttons and belt-holding-apparatus on the waist. big boy pants often feature buttons that require certain finger strength and finesse to handle.
Unlike other more common pants, staining Big Boy Pants results in anger/frustration with ones parents. Known from Cult Classic action comedy thriller "The Other Guys"
"you wake up in the morning and shout: i put on my big boy pants?"
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.