when friends and family allude to actions that could be considered, well, gay. Usually associated with English mentrying be cool in America when they are secretly GAY.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.