Acts publicly like a butch, but deep inside is like a pile butter
she dresses in men's shirts, has short hair, tells everybody she is gay, is recognized formally as a butch, but once you interact with her, you realize she is really a butchmild
"Heyyyyy Aari do you have a Wild Mild?"
"Yeah, why wouldn't I when I'm around someone as ravishingly handsome as you TJ"
"Thanks, but I already knew I was humble"