when a man says something to a man/gyal portraying it as a joke bc he ent confident enough to ask it for real. if they take it as a joke they act as if it was a joke the whole time, if they take it genuinely then they pretend they was serious or vice versa depending on which way advantages them.
as well as this the phrase can also be used if the opposite person knows what the phrase means
as well as this the phrase can also be used if the opposite person knows what the phrase means
example of mandem joking:
question: “ay clare you’re looking peng still you tryna fuck... haha”
reply1: “nah fuck off”
response1: “haha i was joking relax”
reply2: “when you thinking hunni?”
response2: “my gaff at 9”
example of using the phrase:
“cum on my tits... hahaha mandem joking”
question: “ay clare you’re looking peng still you tryna fuck... haha”
reply1: “nah fuck off”
response1: “haha i was joking relax”
reply2: “when you thinking hunni?”
response2: “my gaff at 9”
example of using the phrase:
“cum on my tits... hahaha mandem joking”
by KINGNUTSACK December 11, 2019
Get the mandem jokingmug. Eric, Ethan, Daniel(Dk), Billy, Noah and their fearless Judean leader Aiden as well as the local battry ho Brynn. Da Mandem write fire songs.
Ethan: Ayo wagwan crodie?
Aiden: WAGWAN FAMMAZ?
DK: What you sayin cro?
Eric: We runnin up on Brynn's botty tonight mandem?
Aiden: Yerppp, Da Mandem finna slide cro
Aiden: WAGWAN FAMMAZ?
DK: What you sayin cro?
Eric: We runnin up on Brynn's botty tonight mandem?
Aiden: Yerppp, Da Mandem finna slide cro
by Aiden Da King of Da Mandem April 14, 2021
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Get the cheeky mandemmug. by The boss 2002 April 3, 2019
Get the Ultra mandemmug. A group or "mini" (round about 12 years of age) "mandem". Boys of chav origin of decent. Most go in groups of 3 or more. You may find these species near the region of a corner shop or fast food dealer where they purchase good to fuel their ill needs. Eating up teir owno a quater of their own body wieght they strive for trouble with other different social classes to gain ASBO's. They treat this order as a title of greatness. They are prey to police and larger groups of other males. They hunt lone people who are smaller or more feminine then themselves.
Yo homes check out those mini mandems over there!, they look like they havent even grown a pube and they are trying to fight us!
by >Marek< July 11, 2007
Get the Mini Mandemmug.