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Husbian

A sensitive, feminine male that one would assume is gay, but is actually straight and married. The husbian often associates more with women or doesn't have many male friends.
Maggie's husbian is such a great guy, he's so understanding. He's the reason for the phrase "All the good men are married or gay".
by TheBriarfox August 20, 2011
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Hesbian

A nb gay woman (lesbian) who uses "he/him" pronouns.

Appears by a misinterpretation of "gender =/= pronouns"
This is born for nb folks, since some are not ok w "they/them".

So: "A non binary person can use binary pronouns, which do not mean they are binary"
Example: a nb person who use "she/her"

Pronouns are meant to indicate what gender the subject is/what's the one which the person identifies the most/is minimally related to. (That's why neopronouns were born).
A person should choose their pronouns in based of how they identify.
"Lesbianism" has always include nb woman/nb persons whose has a minimum of correlation with womanhood.

"He/him" are male-related pronouns. Whoever decides to use them is, in fact, related to manhood or male gender spectrum and/or expression.

We come to the conclusion that "hesbians" are: a contradiction, ignorance about how "pronouns" works, what "lesbianism" is, and a reason why more transphobics r erasing trans rights.

Some defend that there has "always been he/him lesbians". As the "male Victorian lesbians"
Those woman were not "he/him lesbians". They were faking being men, so they could been with their lovers without being murdered. Since, lesbianism were a reason to be executed.

So, again, we come to the same conclusion: a bad use of languaje, tolerance and logic.
Nowadays, there are fools who think "everything is valid", even if it is a contradiction/hurtful for someone/a community/movement etc.
A: Hey, you know i'm a hesbian, right?

B: A what?

A: A lesbian who use he/him pronouns.

B: so you identify yourself as a woman?

A: that's right, a gay woman.

B: but you use a male-related pronouns?

A: you got it well!

B: if you use he/him, should you be called "straight"?

A: No, cuz I'm a woman.

B: But if you are refered as he/him, would it be contradictory? And also, wouldn't you mean by it, you are seeing sex instead of gender, and by that, being transphobic and ignoring how languaje is used and/or what lesbianism is?

A: You are just an ignorant, lesbophobic.

B: Ok, sorry, cool. Did you know i'm vegetarian?

A: But you are eating chicken right now. You cannot be vegetarian.

B: Exactly.
by Cynic_Psychologist February 6, 2022
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Used to describe something from the ancient Hisui region of Pokémon located in what is modern-day Sinnoh.
The hisuian forms of Pokémon are really cool.
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