has a lot of different meanings when occurring between two people of different sexes.
If two
girls or two guys are chilling and none is interested in the other, the resulting meeting is that of the "hanging out" and "shooting the breeze" variety. They may talk, play games, or watch movies...all platonic
If a guy wants to "chill" with a girl that he's interested in, whether romantically or sexually she should certainly run in the opposite direction if she wishes to remain
single and unattached and is interested in the guy in any shape or form. If she wishes to actually
date this guy, she should play extremely hard to
get and postpone this "chilling" for as
long as possible. Said "chilling" should not occur until the two are actually
dating. Prior to this, they should actually go out on dates.
I was chilling with my homeboy yesterday. (perfectly
innocent)
Hey
Tiana, we should chill sometime. (
red flag if this is from guy to girl)